Soarer Central: Archive through November 29, 2006

Soarer Central Off-Topic Fact or fallacy? Male opinions needed Archive through November 29, 2006

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Leon Wright
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Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 05:41 pm, by: Leon Wright (Techman)

I'm of the who gives a fly fig camp. I've had some good relationships that started with a drunken romp and some bad ones and same goes for the other side of the coin.

Depends what one is looking for in another. I also live in the DILLIGAF camp, honestly some random's opinion bear little on how I feel about myself, more the respect of my friends and family is important.

Peter Burrett
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Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 06:06 pm, by: Peter Burrett (Burrett)

Well, here comes a wrinkly; I've been married twice, and in each instance it was initially overwhelming and then reasonably lasting (15 yrs and 16 yrs) and, yes, we did jump into the cot in our first encounter.... it certainly did not diminish my opinion of the women, and apparently, not theirs of me.... I think the real question is about the building of a reputation of "easiness", rather than any specific instance

Neil Griffiths
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Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 07:29 pm, by: Neil Griffiths (Aussiesc)

MMMMMMMMMmmmmmm

When I was aged between 17-20,,I'd bang anything.. ( No STD's back then )

At 20 I dated a girl who turned out to be just under 16, so I would not touch her until she hit 16, I ended up marrying her ( 13 years ) ended up being a bad relationship ( after 4 kids )

Then after I was divorced I was in my 30's ( STD's WAS now about ) so being concerned about how my kid's would feel and what could happened, I refused any form of permanant relashionship, I did meet a few girls ( but the best part was I REFUSED sex on the first 6 dates ) hahahahaha.

Then one day Deb hit on me ( about 8-9 years ago ) I did not bed her in all her attempts to do as such. Then one day I did and we have been together ever since ( now married 1 year ago )

BUT,
She had to agree & understand that she MUST wait till I had no more of my children in my care, for us to actually LIVE togther, She did as such ( we have been living together for about 2 years now ) So for her understanding and knowledge of what my main concerns were, she is still happy and has never looked back ( I now have a woman that is my BEST FRIEND )

So in answer to your question Sam, I think it all comes down to the AGE bracket this situation is presented in.
Modern Women are more promiscuious than years gone by then Men are now !

So ages of * Bang on the 1st date * for Men would be,

16-20 - Hell Yeah ( if it moves, screw it )

20-25 - Pissed,, Bang Me,,, Sober,, I'm with me mates.

25-30 - So whats your name ? What sort of JOB do you have ?

30-35 - Look, I've been in some bad releasionships, lets just see how it goes, ok

35-40 - So what resturant / food do you like ? How many children did you say you had ? SEX, yes I do enjoy a good bang a few nights a week

40 up ???? Prolly, give it to me baby, it's been awhile...HAHHAHAHAHHAHA

Ben Daniel
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Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 07:48 pm, by: Ben Daniel (Lexustt)

1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th date, Seriously Sam, if you like the person then what does it matter ????

Personally I think the tradition of no Sex before marriage is a bit silly cause like... what happens come wedding night you find out the person isn't up to scratch or the equipment just doesn't even work !

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Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 08:19 pm, by: Ben Socratous (Socrates)

Neil Griffiths wrote on Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 07:59 pm:
Or they have the same sexual organs as you do...

You crack me up!!!

As for your question Sam, I know people who would say that it equals an easy person and I know people that would be fine with it all. After experiencing both sides of the coin, I agree with the former. Plus IMHO it is more fun once you get to know the person a bit better.

In relation to your other question, I have actually turned it down once, because I HAD A HEADACHE, ahahahaha! Albeit one that had me seeing stars and made me feel quite woosey, I put my neck out working under the dash, damn soarer

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Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 08:25 pm, by: Ben Daniel (Lexustt)

Believe it or not Ben but sex is meant to be a good headache cure. Once you get all those endorphins out and working its basically headache gone.

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Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 08:34 pm, by: Ben Socratous (Socrates)

Ben Daniel wrote on Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 08:25 pm:
Believe it or not Ben but sex is meant to be a good headache cure

Yes, I know, tried and proven

Just doesn't seem to work when you have the worlds worst migrane that ended up in me being hospitalised

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Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 09:12 pm, by: Perry Morgan (Uzz32)

Ben Daniel wrote on Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 07:48 pm:
1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th date, Seriously Sam, if you like the person then what does it matter ????

When I read this it prompted me to think from another point of view. If you (anyone) slept with someone on the first date and they thought less of you because of it, although they obviously participated then what sort of shallow person would that make them and would you want them then anyway?

Mel Morgan
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Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 09:17 pm, by: Mel Morgan (Active8)

Perry put out on the first date and it lowered my opinion of him, but after 8 years (4 married) I am coming around.

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Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 09:38 pm, by: Mike Bradberry (Halflife)

Neil, I hope your lady was standing over your shoulder when you revealed all you did.
Yes, my partner was my best friend before the inevitable.

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Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 10:22 pm, by: Ben Daniel (Lexustt)

Perry, to me thats having double standards and being completely weak hearted. Given the genre on the matter I'd seriously have a problem with the person if I knew that side of them and like usual wouldn't hesitate to tell them that they're low.

So yeah, I seriously hope your just joking Mel

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Wednesday, November 29, 2006 - 12:42 am, by: Shane Ilich (Ferret)

Ben Daniel wrote on Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 07:48 pm:
Personally I think the tradition of no Sex before marriage is a bit silly cause like... what happens come wedding night you find out the person isn't up to scratch or the equipment just doesn't even work !

A good friend of mine has basically just railroaded her bf of about 4 years into getting engaged (she gave him a deadline - end of October this year, which he basically kept) and they are now getting married in March next year, having been living together for about 2 years and travelled together before that. Why do I say railroaded?? Because they are both "Crazy Christians" (their terminology, not mine) doing the whole no-sex-before-marriage thing...and she just basically wants to have sex.

It's literally been a bit embarassing - her words the other night at a BBQ, which was our first time seeing them since the engagement - "I cant wait for our wedding day in March, cos then I can finally have sex". So much for "cos then I will be married to the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with" or something along those lines.

Personally, I think the whole no-sex-before-marriage thing just eds up putting this massive pressure on it, and raises it up to be this thing that, inevitably when it happens, its never going to be able to live up to.

My 2c.

Neil Griffiths wrote on Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 07:29 pm:
So ages of * Bang on the 1st date * for Men would be,

16-20 - Hell Yeah ( if it moves, screw it )

20-25 - Pissed,, Bang Me,,, Sober,, I'm with me mates.

25-30 - So whats your name ? What sort of JOB do you have ?

30-35 - Look, I've been in some bad releasionships, lets just see how it goes, ok

35-40 - So what resturant / food do you like ? How many children did you say you had ? SEX, yes I do enjoy a good bang a few nights a week

40 up ???? Prolly, give it to me baby, it's been awhile...HAHHAHAHAHHAHA

Neil, mate, you are RIGHT on the money. I'm basically moving in the 25-30 circles, and unfortunately, that is EXACTLY the sort of mind-set a lot of females in that age bracket have...try as hard as some might to deny it.

Mel Morgan
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Wednesday, November 29, 2006 - 06:56 am, by: Mel Morgan (Active8)

No joke Ben. Although we have been together for 8 happy years you will have to lower your opinion of us because we did rude things the first time we met.
Why do you hope we are joking? It is a non issue for anyone but us.

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Wednesday, November 29, 2006 - 08:17 am, by: Matthew Sharpe (Madmatt)

Personally it's never lowered my respect of any woman, but not having it happen on the first date has certainly *increased* my respect for a woman, and probably contributed towards my level of trust too - and vice versa. I think most people tend to give their trust more to someone who has proven they can excercise self control.

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Wednesday, November 29, 2006 - 08:54 am, by: Lew Radbourn (Marlew)

Mel Morgan wrote on Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 09:17 pm:
Perry put out on the first date and it lowered my opinion of him, but after 8 years (4 married) I am coming around