Wednesday, August 23, 2006 - 08:18 pm, by: Tamatha Chapman(4ltrv8)
Glad to read that your daughter is doing well after surgery, and to see that you still have a sense of humour after all you've been through.
Just a thought, maybe changing your numbers would help rid yourself of these idiots. Otherwise contact your service provider and have them warned not to contact you again. They can be blocked from ringing you.
Anyway wishing you and your kids all the best.
Ben Socratous DieHard SA Iv'e started to put my interior back together!!!
Wednesday, August 23, 2006 - 08:35 pm, by: Ben Socratous(Socrates)
Good to hear that she pulled through ok!
Try have an ex make false death threats against herself and try to have you charged with them?!? Crazy biatch that one! As has been said, just COMPLETELY ignore them, dont even talk to them at all. Guys can be twits at times...
Thursday, August 24, 2006 - 08:59 am, by: Katrina Bruns(Katrina)
I'm thrilled to hear the news myself. and I'm going to cross my fingers and pray even harder that in 3 weeks time when she goes for her 1 month check up that pocket of fluid is gone and it was just a fluke after math....
As for the men in my life (ugh) I'm not really sure what to do except let it roll in one ear and out the other. I'm not a shy person.. I'm not a mean person.. and its very easy to find me if you want to... sooo.. I will just let them vent, comply with my typical <rolling> a sigh and go about with life
Friday, August 25, 2006 - 09:24 pm, by: Daniel Clarke(Dieseltrain)
Great to here your daughter is doing well Katrina. And like most have said, We all find it hard to move on from something even when it seems Bad, because we are scared of whats out there.
Try it and i Guarrantee you wont turn Back. I have helped 2 of my wife's friends move out and leave their Ex's because they were both physically and verbally violent.
Lets just say, the violent one, spent a few days in hospital for what he said about my wife,let alone what he said to her friend or myself! And lucky for me it WAS self defence of course!
Saturday, August 26, 2006 - 04:19 am, by: Katrina Bruns(Katrina)
I'm not scared of whats out there.. I just have no desire to move on to another at this point... and in order for anything to work from this point on.. I have to get past the current guy.. as in if he is still on my mind... trying to make another one work would be totally pointless.
As for Ally, she did well after the surgery.. but will find out at the 1 month check up if everything is good and she is 100% out of any problems... as long as the device stays in her heart.. and that pocket of fluid isn't causing problems or has gone away..
I'm a mom.. I worry, I'm paranoid.. just the way I am.. I have total right be after eveyrthing that I have been through in the last 6 yrs.... life has been really rough.. so yeah, I'm still a bit scared of stuff like Ally's heart.. I dont care if its a regular procedure.. 1000's of kids have come throgh perfectly.. I'm mom!!
Saturday, August 26, 2006 - 04:41 am, by: Scott Ferguson(Scott_ferguson)
Aw come on now, not all guys, just the ones that want to be more than your friend at the moment, right Katrina?
I'm glad to hear that everything is so far so good with Ally. I'm not a parent just an older brother to a lot of kids, But i've had to take a few of them to the hospital for broken or dislocated arms and stitches a few times, that's bad enough. I wouldn't wish what you've had to go through on anyone.
Saturday, August 26, 2006 - 02:29 pm, by: Katrina Bruns(Katrina)
OK yeah.. just the one's I seem to picka s partners haven't been "stellar" choices.. not by a long shot. All I know is I can not trust Matt (ex hubby) or Kip (ex bf) never ever ever again!! They betrayed me, broke my heart, lied to me.. and then held my kids against me along with any other grudge they could dig up on me in the past 5 yrs..
They can drop my heart just saying certain things once and in a perticular way.. dang it hurts
As for Ally and her surgery.. I'm getting nervous as her one month check up approaches.. I'm a mom as I've said before.. I just dont want any problems or anything... that pocket of fluid next to her heart just freaks me out... and everywhere I go, everyone is like "did you lose more weight again" ... God has a sense of humor with me I swear.. its a test right?
Saturday, August 26, 2006 - 04:34 pm, by: Katrina Bruns(Katrina)
Miles.. that is the hardest part.. not wanting to talk to them They were both such a huge part of my life for a long while.. right now I'm just not quite ready to move on Not saying stick and wait for them to beg for me back.. just not ready to move from this spot at the moment
Monday, August 28, 2006 - 08:46 pm, by: Katrina Bruns(Katrina)
Yeah... I figuere if I stay single it will probly be safer. But right now I just couldnt devote any amount of anything to a new guy.. and I'm really not game to getting my heart stomped into a million pieces when the pieces that are there now aren't fitting together so well.
Besides, when was a rebound ever really a good idea? When I married my ex-husband... he was a rebound.. look how well that turned out hmmmmm
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